The Theory Dasbien or Das Bien (in english Give Good) is a theoretical concept linked to the paradigm of love, and based on the book "Das Bien" by psychologist Andy Figueroa,[1] published on May 16, 2010. [2] [3][4]It arose from humanistic psychology and the popular perspective on love. [5][6]

In psychology, it is an anti-premise of the concept of love related to emotions and feelings.[7] It affirms that loving is something good and has healthy repercussions in human life, in addition, it broadens the concept of love to different subjects such as a mother,[8] child, pet, parent, self or any other being. Love remains the same, but the addressee changes. [9][10]

Parts of the theory

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Most of the theory is normative and practical. The Das Bien theory is linked to the concept or paradigm of love, conceived as a universal feeling by different organisms of society. However, it arises as an antithesis to the worldly concept of love, explaining through contemporary psychology that to love is to give something good, from the perspective of the recipient. It is good for the one who receives the feeling of love, creating "the expression of healthy love".[11]

Also, from a philosophical point of view, love is not about the "I", but about the inner and outer world of the other. This type of love is born from the learning of past experiences according to the Decision Theory.[12][13]

The theory suggests that love is giving, a verb with notorious particularities and that it is related to the premise: "to give something good, according to the other". It is not a sensation or feeling, nor is it a desire and taste, choice, much less is it giving everything. [14]

Elements of love

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  • Sender: the entity that performs the action of loving.[15]
  • Receiver: is a target and subject at the same time (living being that exists) that expresses what is good for it.
  • Activity: is the intentional action of giving love sent by the sender and received by a receiver.
  • Situation: represents the social, ideological and other variables that create a certain situation for an activity to take place.

Components of the act of love

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The Das Bien theory conceives that the process of love has three components encompassed in the "Triangle of Loving". This is a model similar to the "Triangle of Fire" which describes three actions: fuel, combustion, activation energy. From the logic of fire, the three components of the act of love are created.[16]

  • Subjectivize: the sender reflects and investigates what is good for the receiver, according to his internal world. [17]
  • Intentional: the sender with intention gives something good, there is a meaning to his actions.
  • Feedback: the sender makes sure that for the receiver what he gave is something good.


References

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  1. Cárdenas, Andy Kid Figueroa; UNMSM, Fondo Editorial de la (2010-04-15). Das Bien (in Spanish). andy kid figueroa. ISBN 978-9972-46-425-6.
  2. "UNA PROPUESTA SALUDABLE DE AMOR: TEORÍA DASBIEN – To love is to give something welfare…" (in Spanish). Archived from the original on 2022-11-27. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  3. "la complejidad del amor". Club de Escritura Fuentetaja (in Spanish). 2020-05-26. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  4. "chenky_chan". chenky-chan.livejournal.com. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  5. "News – Page 4 – Pontifical Catholic University of America – PCUA". Archived from the original on 2022-11-27. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  6. "UNA PROPUESTA SALUDABLE DE AMOR: TEORÍA DASBIEN | Iglesia Católica Anglicana del Perú – ICAP" (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  7. "La teoría "Dasbien" - amar es dar algo bueno". Rio Colorado Informa (in Spanish). 2022-06-17. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  8. Sankara (2022-09-11). "▷Día de la Madre, un día memorable". La banda del patio (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  9. says, fundacion Dasbien (2021-02-13). "¿Sabes qué sucede en tu cerebro cuando te enamoras?". CETYS (in Mexican Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  10. "El amor es… ¿Cómo lo definirías tú?". SicologiaSinP.com (in European Spanish). 2022-02-16. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  11. Americano, Periodismo (2022-09-14). "El triángulo del amar | @PeriodismoAmer2". Periodismo Americano (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  12. Staff, Hiram Noriega (2022-09-17). "Beneficios de aplicar una propuesta saludable de amor - PSA". Hiramnoriega.com (in Mexican Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  13. "TEORIA DASBIEN. AMAR ES DAR ALGO BUENO – JUNTOS POR JUANJUI" (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  14. "El odio y el amor en el cerebro". Investigación y Ciencia (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  15. u7xl4, Publicado por (2020-05-05). "APRENDER QUÉ ES EL AMOR EN 15 MINUTOS PARA NO SUFRIR TODA UNA VIDA | Diario Digital de Tarija" (in Spanish). Retrieved 2022-11-28.{{cite web}}: CS1 maint: numeric names: authors list (link)
  16. "Teoría Dasbien. Amar es dar algo bueno". www.ligandoenlared.es. Retrieved 2022-11-28.
  17. Fernández, Daniel Becerra (2021-01-01). "INTELIGENCIA TERRITORIAL Y DECRECIMIENTO TURÍSTICO. INCORPORACIÓN DE CONCEPTOS EMERGENTES EN LAS TESIS TURÍSTICAS". Libro de Actas del Congreso CUICIID 2021 (ISBN: 978-84-09-31464-5).