Lose You to Love Me

2019 single by Selena Gomez

"Lose You to Love Me" is a song performed by American singer-actress Selena Gomez. It was released on October 23, 2019, as the dual lead single (along with “Look at Her Now”) from her third solo album, Rare.[1] Gomez wrote the song with Justin Tranter, Julia Michaels, and its producer, Mattman & Robin. FINNEAS, known for producing his sister Billie Eilish's songs, produced this song as well.[2]

"Lose You to Love Me"
Single by Selena Gomez
from the album Rare
ReleasedOctober 23, 2019
  • Selena Gomez
  • Justin Tranter
  • Julia Michaels
  • Mattias Larsson
  • Robin Fredriksson
  • Mattman & Robin
Selena Gomez singles chronology
"Taki Taki"
"Lose You to Love Me"
"Look at Her Now"

In an interview with Radio.com, Gomez explained that the song was about rediscovering self-worth.[3]

In its first week on the Billboard Hot 100, the song entered at number 15 but jumped to #1 the next week, giving Gomez her first US number-one hit.[4]


  1. "Rare by Selena Gomez". Genius. Retrieved 2020-03-25.
  2. Selena Gomez – Lose You To Love Me, retrieved 2019-10-30
  3. "Selena Gomez Confirms the Meaning of 'Lose You To Love Me'". www.radio.com. 2019-10-28. Retrieved 2019-10-30.
  4. "Selena Gomez". Billboard. Retrieved 2019-11-05.